Category: Let's talk
Ok this may seem wierd but how many of you have cheated on someone, or been cheated on? Well I've done both to tell you the truth! Not cool! Recently I was cheated on! A long time ago I cheated on someone, and realized how much it hurts recently! What do you all think?
Oh yeah, it hurts to be cheated. And when you are the cheater you feel so guilty after it happens to you.
Yup! that's how my current X feels! I can't say much because he's a member of the site, so I'll shut up!
Yeah I definitely know how it feels i've been hurt left to right for dumb reasons. I did cheat once i was so upset with myself.
That's how I felt too! I did it once, and once you do it for the first time you decide ypou never want to do it again!
I've never cheated. Ever. I've been cheated on. Why anyone would cheat on someone is beyond me.
My ex is a member of this site too, so I'll keep it vague, but he cheated on me during the last few weeks we were together when I thought we could salvage a relationship that was going downhill. Not only was he a cheater, but he was a liar. I've generally moved on from any feelings of hurt because of him, now it's my own self I have to deal with so that I don't end up dating men in the future who hurt me. I've had my heart broken too many times, even by simple crushes, and I know things need to change.
Hey girl! I hear you.
I've never cheated, but I've been cheated on, and I also know what it's like to have feelings for a guy that either doesn't know you exist, or for whatever reason can't be with you. I've had guys lead me to believe there was something there, only to find out it wasn't real.
My daughter's father cheated on me, only I didn't know this until after she was born. He did it just after finding out I was pregnant! So, cheating sucks!
Hey everyone...
What I don't understand about dateing is, why does everyone just kinda thro hints at each other?
No one is honest anymore. Or should I say, that people drop hints and expect the person that they like to just figgure it out.
I can tell you that when I tried to figgure out that a girl liked me, I was wrong. I"ve done it twice.
SO I dunno. I think its best to just tell the person outright. NO one gets confused then.
Then again, me with my flirting? I dunno. Hope they all know its just that, and not a lead-on.
John
I hear ya Charis girl!
And cheating is sooooooo low! Even though I've never been in a relationship, I can safely say that if my future partner ever cheated on me, they'd be "out the door"! Just because they might apologize til their little heart attacks, it doesn't mean they won't do it again! I believe the honest ones will always be honest, but unfortunately there are those who can never be happy for a long period of time and they need "variety". OK maybe very very few can learn from their mistakes and not do it again, but .. that would seem quite rare!
I've never out-right cheated on someone, but I'll admit I flirted with other people, which may have seemed harmless at the time, but ended up royally pissing my girl friend at the time off.